Be the best version of yourself

The journey ive been on has given me the courage and the strength to work on myself. Some things ive learnt are...

**Our mistakes dont define us, they actually teach us. It's our actions following a mistake that define us. We aren't perfect people...but we can be genuine in our apologies, and understanding of the hurt we cause....

Broken people break people....and hurt people hurt people! Looking beyond the pain you feel to see the pain that they are in. And then allowing yourself to become vulnerable again with open and honest communication.

Forgiveness isnt about saying that what they did was ok....its about letting go of your negative feelings and pain. Learn to forgive....learn to let go....while remebering not to forget because how else do we learn. Above all forgive yourself and learn from it....always.

Know your worth....understand what it is and where it comes from. Dont be scared to stand your ground and not accept less than what you need or deserve. Someone who values you will accept all of you. You will thrive and flourish as you only surround yourself with people who value your worth.

In everything we do, in everything we say...we need to have and show respect. The kind of common everyday respect, the genuine care and consideration of someone other than ourselves.

Find what brings you joy...lifes too short to not live it. Allow yourself the chance to try new things, throw caution to the wind sometimes. Share the joy it really is contiguous, make memories and laugh lots. Avoid drama and people or things that steal your joy.

Never ever give up....dont worry about failing, just find a way to pick yourself up after every fall, self reflect...ask for help and remember....(start reading again at ***)

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